Last Couple Standing by Matthew Norman

4*

The biggest lesson from this book is that divorce isn’t usually a solution and that people should work harder and be willing to forgive transgressions. Couples who love each other need to work hard to keep their marriages exciting, and looking for excitement outside of marriage isn’t the best course of action. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. The main flaw in their reasoning is that sex is what makes or breaks marriages. With the odds of divorce at 50%, Jessica and Mitch should have realized that their odds were greatly improved after 75% of their friends group split up. They had a loving marriage with humor, respect, friendship and beautiful kids. When they created the rules, they failed to consider that their feelings for each other who supersede any logic.

I appreciate that this male author was able to fairly capture women’s feelings. Although Jessica was the instigator and the only one to have sex, he didn’t make her the villain of the piece. And with the other couples, one man cheated, one couple each had emotional affairs, and the 3rd weren’t in love, so the blame fell along gender lines. The men stereotypically went after younger women, and the women experienced and discussed the double standard of dating in the new millennium: men go for younger women thereby forcing middle-aged women to date older men. Of course, there’s the occasional cougar relationship as well, but it’s no more fulfilling than the older man-younger woman scenario. Bottom line is that sexual attraction complicates things, and seeking out extramarital liaisons is opening Pandora’s box, even if both partners are seemingly in agreement.

I loved Mitch. He’s the perfect man as far as I’m concerned: funny, devoted, loving, loyal, and a devoted father. Yes, he was tempted by a pretty young thing, but his love for his family kept him from crossing the line. The whole ET subplot is all about how even the best parents can make mistakes, but that they do everything in their power to make up for them by being there for their kids.

I received a complimentary ARC of this book from Ballantine Books through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Opinions expressed are completely my own.